Category: Personal Transformation

Shifts your perspective powerfully in a moment…

I’ve been wanting to share with you a way of looking at things
that has powerfully impacted me (and therefore my family *smile*)
in the last 4-6 weeks, and I finally took a few moments now to
jot this down.

Ever encounter circumstances—in your money, health, or
relationships—where you suddenly feel, “Oh no…what am I
going to do?”

Well, the next time that happens, how about saying to yourself,
“I’m looking forward to seeing how this will unfold.”

What does that do for you?

Well, it immediately shifts your focus from only what you can
“see” right now—which might be a glaring lack of health, a
lack of money, or something troubling that’s just come up in
your circumstances or your relationships…

And this phrase,”Hmm…I’m looking forward to seeing how this
will unfold” immediately shifts your view to an “unseen” trust
and assumption that “all is well” even though you can’t see it
right now…and implies that things WILL unfold beyond what you
can see now…

unfold for good…

maybe even something much better than what you’ve been thinking
about so far…

and simply opening that door with the phrase, “I’m looking forward
to seeing how this will unfold” immediately shifts your emotional
energy state…

and that not only helps you feel better in the moment…

it also keeps you open to possibilities you might have missed had
you stayed in the “shut down” state of “Oh, no!”

Practice this with yourself this week, and let me know your own
experiences below!

Dr. Ben

P.S.  I received the above idea from a wonderful woman, Sue Anne
Macgregor, who does a unique process (by phone or in person) called
holographic repatterning that has greatly blessed me at key
junctures in my business and family life over the past several
years.  You can reach Sue Ann on her business line at 972-898-8833.

Let me  know your own experiences with “powerful shifts in perspective” below.

If you’ve been thinking about your finances lately…

Just read this “Special Wealth Report” from one of Bob Proctor’s proteges…very creatively done, only takes minutes to read, and makes a powerful point.

If you’ve been thinking about your finances at all these days, take a few moment’s break and read this report, then let me know how it impacts your own thinking in the comments below,

Enjoy!

The Fringe Benefits Of Failure, and the Importance of Imagination — J.K. Rowling

Just saw this Harvard commencement address from J.K. Rowling with my kids. Some powerful thoughts on how we can use our imagination in the world today, on appreciation, gratitude, and responsibility, and on “failure”…

Enjoy!

Dr. Ben


J.K. Rowling Speaks at Harvard Commencement from Harvard Magazine on Vimeo.

Connecting the dots…

I mentioned yesterday that I’m “connecting the dots” in new
ways using Adrian’s “Law to Success” program.

Late last night I listened to and simultaneously read another
module, and immediately anchored a 3-word phrase that I wrote
on my planner to implant in my brain and apply throughout
today…

What I’m finding is that Adrian’s succint and focused modules
each give me at least one idea or new way of connecting what
I already know that I can immediately apply in a more focused
and purposeful way…without getting lost in a “forest” of
information that I don’t end up using…

His first module on “Energy” gave even me 🙂 a whole new way
of looking at and categorizing foods that was both simple
and powerful.

And I understand there’s still some spots left…

So if you haven’t already, be sure to grab your own
copy of Adrian’s Law To Success Program here.

I look forward to hearing your own results!

Dr. Ben

Review of Adrian Law’s “Law To Success” Mastery Program Launching Today

Ok, here it is…launch day for Adrian Law’s “Law to Success”
program.

I’ve had a chance to review the program, and here’s
my personal take after having completed several modules:

Adrian very succinctly provides in both written and audio
form a clear and powerful guide that is immediately useable
to create specific and measurable results in your life.

Whether it’s the first module on energy, or a later one on
finding your purpose or leadership, each one gave me a new
way of “connecting the dots” and a specific action I could
take to apply what I learned right away.

This is the closest thing I’ve seen to getting the results
of one-on-one coaching without actually hiring a coach, and
is more focused and immediately useable than virtually any
other program I’ve seen.

Whether you’re looking to master your health and energy,
your relationships, or your money or business, I highly
recommend getting this program and applying it to your life
today.

The investment is extremely reasonable for the life-
changing value you receive, and the Bob Proctor
bonus alone is worth a whole program in itself.

So here you go…don’t miss this…launch time is
10am PST (1pm EST), and there’s a limited number of
spots:

Get your copy and bonuses here.

Enjoy!

Dr. Ben

P.S.  If you want to know more about Adrian Law, a great place to meet him is here, where
you can learn his 3 keys to living abundantly in your finances, health, and relationships.

Don’t forget the miracle…

This morning as I snuggled with my wife Rachelle and looked
over her shoulder at our beautiful nursing 7-month old with
her long lashes and dark, smiling eyes, Rachelle began telling
me all the things she loves about our life, and then she said
something that stopped me in my tracks, and I knew I had to
share with you…

“Sometimes for 5 minutes I forget the miracle…”

In the midst of life, a new home, 6 kids, and a 2-year-old who
used to drive her crazy, my wife is now starting her day
appreciating all the “miracles” in her life—-including our
2-year-old…

and the one grand miracle of life itself…

What a delightful way to start the day…and it certainly had
an impact on me and set the tone for her interactions with those
around her…including our 4-year-old who was the next person
to walk into the room this morning…(she’s now reading in bed
to 4 of our 6 kids who’ve “wandered” in…)

So here’s my word to you for the day:

Don’t forget the miracle…

Dr. Ben

Key Life Strategies–50 hrs in 20 minutes with Tony Robbins on TED

Just discovered this on YouTube.  Though it was posted a couple years ago, the strategies Tony gives are timeless and immediately actionable.

Whenever a master in a given field takes what they normally do in 50 hours and condenses it into a 20 minute talk to fellow “idea-preneurs”, it’s extremely valuable to see what they choose to share and how they share it.

This particular video is packed with content–you may want to take a break after 3-5 minutes and immediately apply an idea.

In fact, I believe the questions you ask yourself in response to this video will have an exponential impact on the value you receive.

And here’s a quick tip and invitation:  whether you watch Tony in short segments, or watch the full 20 minutes in one sitting, before you get up, create an anchor for yourself by writing one idea or strategy that impacted you in the comments below.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Dr. Ben

Adrian Law’s “Law to Success”…You Won’t Believe Your Eyes!

Here’s a free video featuring Adrian Law from Law to Success
and Ryan Higgins from Mind Movies.

For those of you who are not familiar with Adrian, he
is a Peak Performance Coach, and has appeared on
TV, Radio and National Newspapers.

In this video Adrian divulges 3 Keys to Living Abundantly
which, I might add, you can implement in your life
RIGHT NOW plus he gives away an incredibly powerful
coaching session…

He also does this weird and funky card trick (not playing
cards if you think you’ve seen them all before).

This seems to have really struck a chord with many people. 
 
Card Trick? Show Me…

Now I know this probably sounds kind of weird,but you have GOT to see this! I couldn’t believe my eyes, but it’s for real.I don’t want to give away the surprise, but let’sjust say you won’t see things the same wayever again.

Seeing is Believing… 

It’s really an incredible example of how onesimple shift in thinking can change everything.  Not just little stuff either, but really IMPORTANT stuff,like your relationships, your health, and even your financialsuccess. So I invite you to answer the one basic questionwaiting for you right here… Watch Closely, It’s Worth It… 

What you’ll find here is the sudden realization ofthe secret to freeing your mind of all the negative inner chatter and turmoil you’re bombarded with every single day. 

Why is that important? 

Because it’s that negative STUFF that messes youup time and time again! 

I think you know what I mean. 

So if you want to quit spinning your wheels andfinally get to where you want in life, do THIS instead… 

Your Wake Up Call Is Here… 

Not only will this open the door to a new way ofapproaching life’s challenges, you’ll discoveryou finally feel truly alive and even powerful. 

And that means you can finally chart your coursein life no matter what is going on around you. 

I think you’ll agree, that is worth its weight in gold,especially these days. This is the perfect time for this,so take a look and start DOING this today.Enjoy! 

Dr. Ben 

P.S. Almost forgot, when you get there, you can grab$1,000 worth of life-changing personal coaching withoutpaying one red cent. So grab it while you can… 

Be Clear On What You Want.

In this day and age with so much information coming at us, so
much calling for our attention daily, it’s important that we
become really clear about what we want.

As I’m reviewing a new life mastery product about to be
released, I was reminded of how significant taking a few moments
at the end of our day to set our intentions and our course for
the next day before we fall asleep can reap great benefits in
living an intentional life…

…and as we experience life and become clear on what we want,
we can always re-adjust and set new intentions for the next day…

I remember very vividly one Saturday night in the past year when
I got engrossed in a dishwasher repair project and then became
frustrated that I “gave away” an evening with my kids…but rather
than staying in “feeling bad”, I set the intention to be very
present to my family the next day, and we had a wonderful day…

…probably much more wonderful than if my intention had not been
so crystal clear after experiencing what I “didn’t want” the night
before!

So practice this:  getting clear on what you want…

…and take a few moments at the end of each day to set your
intentions for the next day.

Dr. Ben

P.S. A very powerful tool for staying focused on what you want,
and easily generating the feelings that can draw it to you
almost “magically”, is Ryan Higgin’s Mind Movie Creation Kit.

Enjoy!

Are Things Really The Way You “See” Them?

What if the “reality” you see isn’t as “true” as you think it
is?

Perhaps it’s the reality of your health, or what doctors have
told you about your health, or what you’ve seen in the news
and in those around you…

Or perhaps it’s your finances, the economy, and again what you’re
“seeing” around you.

And then you bump into someone who has great health or great
finances or a great outlook on something that doesn’t look so
good to you, and you wonder, “what planet are they on?”

Well, today I have a suggestion, and a fun puzzle that will
anchor what I’m talking about.

The suggestion is that when you next meet someone or learn about
someone who has a “good” experience with something that you’d like
to have, too, but currently aren’t (e.g., a good experience of a
particular person, or of their own health, or of their finances
or business or of the economy…) how about releasing some of your
own tight hold on the “reality” you see, and being willing to
suspend your disbelief for a few moments—–long enough to consider
seeing things a different way, and even to adopt the belief, or
way of seeing things, that the person has who has the results or
experience you want…at least long enough to start to “see” and
experience things differently, too?

A little too abstract?

Think about this for a moment in terms of one or more areas of
your life that you’d like to be different.

How attached are you to your current way of seeing things?

Now click below to see an amazing “puzzle” that illustrates how
much our brain is conditioned to “see” in certain ways, based on
what we’re comparing to…or paying attention to…

(Personal confession:  in the puzzle you’re about to see, I
actually had to print out the chessboard and cut out the actual
squares and hold them together before I could “see” the “truth”!)

Here’s the puzzle (click here).

Let me know your own experience of “seeing” differently and what
helped you shift your perspective on something that was important
to you in the comments below.

To a prosperous and joyful 2009 for you,

Dr. Ben